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Notes, ideas, and things I'm learning along the way.
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Passing thoughts, small discoveries, and bits of everyday life.
musing: The most precious thing is trust in yourself. Building it requires consistently doing small things right and gaining confidence through small wins, so that when an opportunity comes, you feel more confident about seizing it.
musing: 最难能可贵的是对自己的信任，做到这一点，需要持续不断做正确的小事，用持续的小胜积累足够的底气，在有机会来临的时候更有底气抓住它。
Neurons are plastic and remember every action you take. Delayed gratification is essentially about building immediate feedback for actions that bring greater rewards over the long term.
When you're at a low point, protecting yourself from being hurt is, of course, the safest thing to do. But you can't stay in that state forever, because self-protective behaviors often establish a short-term positive feedback loop. You have to try to break that loop.
神经是具有可塑性的，会记住你的每一个行为。延迟满足，本质上是去建立完成长期更有收益行为后的即时反馈。
人在低谷的时候，最安全的方式当然是保护自己不受创伤。但是不能总是沉溺于此，因为保护自己的行为往往建立了短期的正反馈机制，要尝试打破这种反馈。。